“They were only words…”

Going to try to find some peace.  Thank you all.    xoxo

Posts in my queue will publish…

Just a woman trying to survive the ins/outs, ups/downs, triumphs/tragedies of life. With some humor. And some perspective.

The man I loved for six years had an affair:

 

” risk taking is not about going into something dangerous, it is about determining that the benefit of what be (sic) achieved greatly outweighs any consequence.  Not having you is worse than any possible side effect. ”  – Bob “Clo” to VikWhoRia Popova

Yet he told me that “They were only words to her.”

I told her when she came on to me that nite after dinner that I was in a serious, committed, long – term relationship, but she kept on coming after me!

 Ria, I will never be with him no matter what. All the men who want to sleep with me say the same things.

Classy, Viktoria. Thanks.

And there were many side effects AND consequences . . .

To Bob,  I was/am nothing but an irrelevant, meaningless, trivial consequence. I am forever altered and irrevocably damaged by his presence . . .  by his actions . . . by his words . . .by his very being . . .

So, here I am. With only words.

And each time I feel badly about this blog, all I have to do is think about his statement that he doesn’t care about consequences. Not to mention how he left me in a mental, physical, and financial shit hole. And he doesn’t care about consequences.

*** This blog is not suited for those that are faint of heart, easily shocked and/or considered “genteel”. ***

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