“…a pledge that this is a life time agreement.”

 

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Me to Bob about my divorce decree terms:

I guess my fear is, what if we move in together, I have settled for greatly reduced or no maintenance, then we split up.

I am sooooooooo super confused right now.

And . . . his reply:

E-mail may not be the convincing place to say it, but you do NOT have to worry about us splitting up. I love you, and I want to spend the rest of my life with you. I cannot imagine us splitting up. Quite frankly, with what I have gone through in the past, if I had any doubt about us or thought there was any chance of us splitting up, we would not be having this conversation as our living together would not be a consideration. I don’t see our living together as being a temporary or matter of convience issue–I see it as a serious commitment and a pledge that this is a life time agreement.

I Love You, and I plan on spending the rest of my life with you.

And I sobbed at my desk.
And the entire way home.
In the snow.
And then at home.

I can’t take this.

Absolutely devastating.

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